Lean In, Lean Out

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When to lean in & when to lean out

Lean In with Intention – Lean Out with Perspective

We all naturally lean in (push forward, take action) and lean out (step back, reset) in different areas of life. The key is knowing when to do each—so that stress, challenges, and energy shifts work for you, not against you.

I developed the Lean In & Lean Out Method after experiencing burnout, anxiety, and a constant push-pull between overdoing and avoiding. I had moments of leaning in too hard—taking on too much, not knowing when to pause, pushing through exhaustion. And other times, I leaned out too much, disconnecting, procrastinating, or avoiding hard conversations. Neither extreme worked.

Through my own journey, I learned that balance is the key to energy, clarity, and flow. Now, I help others—whether it’s parents juggling life’s demands, corporate teams managing stress, or students navigating pressure—find their own rhythm of when to push and when to pause.

What Is Lean In & Lean Out?

Most of us either push too hard (leading to burnout and frustration) or pull away too much (leading to avoidance and missed opportunities). This method helps you find the balance between action and pause—so you can move through life with more energy, clarity, and control.

It’s not about doing more or less—it’s about knowing when to lean in and when to lean out.

This Method Helps You:

Recognize Your Patterns – Are you constantly pushing or holding back?
Create Balance – Know when to step up and when to step back.
Move With Purpose – Stop reacting unconsciously—lean in with intention, lean out with perspective.

When Do We Lean In?

Stepping into discomfort to grow and evolve
Taking action on things that truly matter
Pushing through fear to create positive change
Showing up for challenges with focus and purpose

When Do We Lean Out?

Pausing to recharge and reset before burnout kicks in
Gaining clarity before making big decisions
Letting go of control when forcing things isn’t working
Creating space for new ideas, perspectives, and solutions

When you master this method, you stop operating on autopilot and start moving with intention—leading to better decisions, less stress, and more flow in your life.

When Leaning In & Leaning Out Works Against Us

Like anything, leaning in and leaning out can either serve us or hold us back—it all depends on how and when we do it.

🔹 Leaning In Too Much (Overdoing It):

  • Pushing through exhaustion, ignoring the need for rest
  • Forcing outcomes instead of allowing things to unfold naturally
  • Taking on too much responsibility, leading to burnout
  • Saying “yes” to everything to avoid discomfort or conflict

🔹 Leaning Out Too Much (Avoiding Growth):

  • Avoiding challenges that could help us grow
  • Withdrawing when things feel overwhelming instead of addressing them
  • Procrastinating important decisions out of fear of making the wrong choice
  • Numbing stress with distractions instead of facing what’s really going on

Who Is This For?

This method is for anyone wanting more balance, energy, clarity, and control over stress. It’s a game-changer for:

🔹 Individuals – If you feel stuck, drained, or unsure when to act or step back, this will help you reclaim your energy and flow.

🔹 Parents – Balance the demands of parenting by knowing when to guide and when to let go, creating stronger connections with your kids while reducing stress and overwhelm.

🔹 Corporate Teams & Leaders – Learn how to balance high performance with well-being, so you can work smarter—not just harder. Teams become more productive, resilient, and engaged.

🔹 Educators & Students – Help students and teachers recognize stress patterns, regulate emotions, and create better learning environments with more clarity and focus.

🔹 Athletes & Performers – Know when to push and when to recover, so you can perform at your best without burnout or injury.

Why This Works

This method changed my life. After years of pushing too hard, running on stress, and feeling out of sync, I learned how to tune in to my nervous system, energy levels, and stress responses. Now, I teach this method to people of all ages so they can create more ease, freedom, and control in their own lives.

The Benefits of Lean In & Lean Out:

More connection to yourself – Understand your stress responses and patterns
Clearer decision-making – Know when to take action and when to step back
More energy & flow – Avoid burnout and create sustainable motivation
Less stress, more balance – Reduce anxiety, overwhelm, and frustration
More joy & fulfillment – Align your actions with what truly matters

What Others Are Saying

"This method helped me balance training and recovery. I used to overtrain and then crash. Now, I know when to push myself and when to allow my body to recover. My performance has improved massively, and I feel so much more in tune with my body."

James, Athlete

"My son has struggled with anxiety for years, always overwhelmed and never knowing when to step back. Learning about Lean In & Lean Out has given him tools to manage stress, make clearer decisions, and feel more in control. I can’t thank Chris enough for this approach."

Emma, Parent

"As a teacher, I see students either over-engage to the point of stress or completely shut down. Since introducing this method, I’ve noticed a huge difference in how they manage challenges. They’re more aware of when to push forward and when to take a moment. It’s been a game-changer in the classroom."

Sarah, High School Teacher

"This was a great session, and we are all talking about Lean In & Lean Out daily. It makes so much sense and brings immediate clarity to discussions. I don’t know how we managed without it before! Last year’s session on breathwork was powerful, but adding this concept to our strategy review took it to another level. It’s now common language within our team and is helping leaders empower their people. The shift in self-awareness is huge and incredibly helpful."

Peter McKendry, CEO, Co-Group

The Key Is Balance

True balance isn’t about doing less or more—it’s about knowing when to lean in with intention and when to lean out with perspective. When you master this, you’ll move through life with greater ease, clarity, and confidence.

Ready to See Where You Stand?

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Lean In, Lean Out Coaching Packages

Individual Package – $555 (3 Sessions)

Designed for: Individuals seeking a deeper awareness of their energy patterns, emotional balance, and strategies to prevent burnout while increasing productivity and well-being.

What’s Included:

3 x Private Coaching Sessions (Tailored to your specific challenges & goals)
Full Lean In, Lean Out Program (Practical exercises & mindset shifts)
Breathwork Techniques or Journey for Stress & Focus
Personalised Strategies for Work-Life Balance & Emotional Regulation

Integration Plan to Apply What You Learn

💬 Perfect for anyone who feels overwhelmed, stuck, or constantly swinging between overcommitting and disengaging. Learn to manage your energy wisely.

Corporate / Teams Package – $150 Per Head

Designed for: Leaders, teams, and workplaces that struggle with burnout, team engagement, and sustainable performance. This package helps teams find the balance between productivity and well-being, leading to higher efficiency, less stress, and improved collaboration.

What’s Included:

Team Coaching Sessions (Live or Virtual) – Interactive and practical
The Lean In, Lean Out Program for Teams – Custom strategies for workplace balance
Breathwork & Energy Management Tools – Reduce stress & improve focus
Team Engagement & Leadership Strategies – Learn how to regulate collective energy
Post-Session Implementation Guide – Apply changes immediately

💬 Ideal for businesses and teams struggling with overworking, stress, and lack of engagement. When your people thrive, your business thrives.

Athletes Performance Package – $999 (4 Sessions)

Designed for: Athletes, coaches, and high-performers looking to master the mental game—balancing intensity, recovery, and mental resilience for peak performance.

What’s Included:

4 x Private Coaching Sessions (Sport-specific energy management & mindset work)
Lean In, Lean Out Performance Framework – Learn when to push & when to recover
Breathwork jouney for Competition & Recovery – Enhance endurance, focus & stress control
Mental Resilience Training – Strengthen decision-making under pressure
Custom Strategies for Peak Performance – Create a sustainable high-performance mindset

💬 If you're an athlete who burns out before the finish line or struggles to mentally reset after setbacks, this program will help you fine-tune your energy and focus for sustained success.

Is This For You?

✔️ Struggle with burnout, overwhelm, or lack of focus?
✔️ Feel like you’re always ‘on’ or completely disengaged?
✔️ Want to optimise your energy, mindset, and performance?
✔️ Need better strategies for work-life balance, leadership, or sport?

It’s time to find YOUR balance.

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